There are a million things that happen during the course of a lifetime. You percieve the things in front of you and guess at the rest. At some point every person learns what their limitations are. We are all limited. There is no such thing as a perfect person, but I have learned that in life when you make a sacrifice you need to be sure it is not a wasted jesture. When you master your limitations, and you know exactly what you are capable of and what you are not, you master your ability to see forward. The one thing to remember is that nothing is guaranteed. That is exactly why I keep my eye on everyone all the time. The only thing I can count on is what I am capable of. When you figure out the math you solve the problem. The problem is: (YOU) - (LIMITATIONS) + (RANDOM VARIABLES) = (THE OUTCOME). The more specific the variables the more specific the outcome. Now there is something to be said for knowing exactly how to define the random variables into actual numbers, but that isn't always an option. Life becomes about logical deduction. Sherlock Holmes said: Once you have eliminated the impossible, whatever is left no matter how improbible is the truth. The truth is the answer.
Now this might sound a little convoluted, but allow me to ellaborate. People lie. When they lie they add more variables to the equation. Each lie adds yet another variable, and ever more complexity to a problem. Lies trap you in the problem. The more people lie the more the real answer becomes lost, and the harder the formula is to solve. However, the truth defines a variable. Once you know that X=3 the problem of 1+X=X becomes 1+3=4. Once the truth is out there the problem is solved and you can move on to the next. That's freedom. The truth doesn't leave you always looking back wondering what X was. The point of all this is simply to illustrate that lies trap you in a problem, they make everything around you complicated and you never know what you can define and what you can't. The truth will allow the problem to be solved and set you free.
How I deal with a problem is to see through the variables and clearly define them. The funny thing is I know a variable when I see it. Don't even try to tell me X=7 when I can look at the problem and see that X clearly is X. X=7 is what a deciever wants you to see. They thrive on showing everyone how much of a 7 they are, but when I look at the problem it is not solved because the problem is written 8-x=x not 8-x=1. Some people thrive on doing a bunch of bullshit and then telling everyone that they are perfectly content. When ignorance and want combine their answer is always total bullshit. The only real evidence that X=7 is because someone says it is. The thing that always amazes me is that most of the time I'm the only one that sees that your answer to everything is utter bullshit.
Bottom line is I know myself and my limitations. I know what I am capable of and what I am not. I know how far I will go. I know who in the fuck I am. I am not writting this to define myself. I am writting this to let everyone know the problem is not solved, and I will not stop looking for the variables until I am able to define them. I don't play. I'm not here to challenge myself with seeing how many variables I can add to an equation. I see a complex problem that is confusing alot of people. I am not confused, I know what I want. I want the answer, and when I get it I will equate the problem to my satisfaction. I don't have to like the answer as long as I KNOW the answer. Although I am limited in the amount of resourses I can draw upon, I am not limited in trying my best in spite of my limitations to keep trying to look after the people I love. Even if it means subtracting myself from the equation to simplify it. I am comprehensive. I do understand. But never make the assumtion that because I understand something I am going to accept it. I understand why you want x to equal 7, but if I see that it doesn't I don't give a fuck what you say. Because a lie is not the truth. Ignorance is not bliss. Manipulation is not love. Living a lie is not freedom, it is a trap. So make your decisions with care, because when you face the world each day the truth is what you keep in your heart. I know that how something looks isn't always how something is. But no matter what you justify to yourself, there is always right and wrong. Chances are that if you have to hide behind a bunch of variables to think you are in control of the outcome you are probably in the wrong, and further more most likely the situation is probably out of hand and you couldn't be farther from being in control.
In life many people use variables to get you to see what they want you to see. They tell you what the definitions are, but they are giving you false definitions. A weak person accepts those definitions and allows that person to do what ever they want. I wonder if you will ever wake up and see that if you stop trying to earn their acceptance and approval they will not care about you. I dare anyone to try this. If you stop doing whatever it is that someone wants you to do with people to earn acceptance (most likely sex or drugs), how many of them will stick around. How many people are just using you because they have convinced you that they are just like you. Try it, make only healthy choices and see how many of your socalled friends stand by you. I stick with the people I love, until they start leing to me. I know the damage lies can do. I deserve better than that. I will settle for nothing less. So you have the choice, you can either be less than, or greater than. Although I love my people, I will not live in a state of false bliss. I am always here for the people I love. I am always watching the variables. I am always paying attention. I am perceptive because I look for the truth. I'm still looking for it.